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by Teresa Nicodemus
By the time Angulus D. Wilson was seventeen, he had been in jail at least
a dozen times for petty misdemeanors and hard-core crimes such as assault
with a deadly weapon. It was then, when he was incarcerated and attended
a Bible study taught by a former Hells Angels gang member, that he started
to turn his life around. The passage that made Wilson take a new direction
in his life dealt with a farmer and the different soils he used to grow
his seeds. Only the good soils, not the rough, hard, or thorny ground,
could nourish the seed through its growth. And Wilson wanted to be good
soil . . . (excerpt from the biography of Angulus D. Wilson)
Today, Rev. Wilson is the director of the Institute for Prison Ministries
at the Billy Graham Center of Wheaton College and has spent the last fourteen
years of his life inspiring youth, who are at risk, and those who mentor
them to stand on good soil. Recently a featured speaker at THE OAKS Christian
Camp and Conference Center in Lake Hughes, California, Rev. Wilson recognizes
the amazing capacity for the camp experience to change the lives of inner-city
youth in powerful ways. "Camp counselors and staff are doing such
a great service to this under-privileged population, exposing them to
another way of life instead of the urban jungles they come from,"
says Rev. Wilson. "It's phenomenal. Most kids in the inner city have
never been out of the inner city. I read that most youth from the inner
city live their lives in a ten-mile radius, never venturing anywhere else.
At camp, there are no sirens, no drive-by shootings, no helicopters. Camp
helps them to relax, rewind, and see the bigger picture."
Children of Prisoners: The Forgotten Victims of Crime
An estimated 2 million children across the U.S. know what it's like
to have a parent behind bars. By every measure, prisoners' children are
the most severely at-risk children and youth in America. Studies show
that children of prisoners are five times more likely to end up in prison
themselves (U.S. News & World Report, April 2002).
In a positive effort to stop the cycle of incarceration among children
of prisoners, the camp experience has become a safe harbor. Prison Fellowship,
a prison outreach and criminal justice reform organization founded in
1976 by Chuck Colson and former Virginia Attorney General Mark Earley,
has been serving prisoners and their families through a unique program,
Prison Fellowship's Angel Tree® Camping.
The Angel Tree Program
Angel Tree is a nationwide effort of Prison Fellowship designed to reach
out to children whose parent or parents are incarcerated. Angel Tree is
a year-round program that provides Christmas care, camp programs, and
mentoring to the children of prisoners. In 2003, more than 525,000 children
received Christmas gifts on behalf of their incarcerated parent through
Prison Fellowship's Angel Tree®.
Prison Fellowship's Angel Tree® Camping is a ministry, stretching
across the U.S., which helps connect a local church with the children
of prisoners, as the church provides a summertime Christian camping experience.
Local church volunteers sponsor children to attend a week of Christian
camp and provide a backpack of helpful camp supplies for each child. All
camp costs are covered by the participating churches and a special scholarship
fund.
Shelley Hayes, Angel Tree Camping manager, helps design and implement
the ministry, working with field offices and churches across the country.
"Three years ago when the program began 7,300 children participated.
This year the program has grown to 9,000 participating campers,"
states Hayes. "Providing an Angel Tree child a camp experience opens
their world to new experiences. Often children affected by incarceration
must step up to the plate and be primary caregivers to younger brothers
and sisters. Camp offers them an opportunity to experience what typical
kids might experience."
Angel Tree Camp: THE OAKS Christian Camp and
Conference Center
THE OAKS serves urban and at-risk youth and families primarily from Los
Angeles; the camp also serves families from Oakland, San Francisco, Fresno,
and San Diego, California. The year-round interdenominational Christian
camp ministry provides 25 percent of its services to the urban and at-risk
youth population and 75 percent to year-round rental groups, serving 600
at-risk youth annually through five, one-week resident camp sessions.
The camp offers a variety of other programs: family vacation camps for
inner-city and urban families, teen retreats, an outdoor science camp,
adventure and high ropes elements, and a Leaders-in-Training program for
the "cream-of-the-crop" inner-city teens.
"Our camp became involved three years ago with Angel Tree Camping.
The organization offers a $195 scholarship to churches to send a child
of a prisoner to camp," says Sean McFeely, program director. "We
were the first camps on the West Coast to participate."
The camp reached out into the community through church networks to find
these special children in need. "This camp experience gives the youth
a chance to be among people where they are not the odd one out —
where they are surrounded by other Angel Tree kids — all of them
have a brother, sister, mother, or father who has done time. It's a part
of life in the inner city," says McFeely.
Cross-Cultural Training
The camp mainly caters to three inner-city populations: Hispanic, African
American, and Asian American. According to McFeely, his camp requires
specialized staff training targeted to inner-city youth and these specific
populations. Over half of the camp's thirty-nine staff members are White
Anglo-Saxon from upper-middle-class, suburban backgrounds. Offering two-and
a-half weeks of intensive training, the camp stipulates that every staff
member gets an "urban plunge" experience where the staff member
spends a week in the inner city, including one night living with a host
family in an inner-city neighborhood. Anger management, conflict resolution,
empathy, and listening skills are also encouraged and enhanced during
staff training. "We want to stretch their thinking — to think
outside of their own cultural box," comments McFeely.
Rev. Wilson agrees with the importance of cross-cultural training for
camp staff. "Realize the urban kid is coming into the camp counselor's
classroom. Most inner-city kids are fearful of authority, the new camp
environment, they are not trusting, and may appear to have attitudes,
but those are external survival mechanisms that they have in place to
survive in the city. If the camp counselor can break through those defense
mechanisms, they can really reach the heart of the camper."
Camp Voorhis Viking Addresses the Need
Camp Voorhis Viking in Mammoth Lakes, California, an agency camp sponsored
by the Boys and Girls Clubs of San Gabriel Valley, is meeting the needs
of children with incarcerated parents or family members in the local area.
"Our general agency focus has been to serve our community by reaching
youth who have family members in prison," says Clay Hollopeter, director.
"We continue to work with these children and be supportive of their
unique needs. They often have feelings of discrimination and loss. All
of those feelings that come when you don't have a parent."
Every summer, Camp Voorhis Viking offers camp experiences free of charge
to Boys and Girls Club members through agency funds. The camp provides
fifteen, six-day resident camp sessions — each session can accommodate
forty campers: ten sessions for boys, three sessions for girls, and two
sessions are coed. Campers can choose to attend more than one camp session.
The Healing Power of the Outdoor Setting
Adventure within reason is the mantra for Camp Voorhis Viking. Camp staff's
main objective is to get to know the campers and bond with them, encouraging
the youth to have expectations greater than that of their parent who is
imprisoned. Through adventure trips to Yosemite Park and Mono Lake, ghost
town explorations, and hiking, campers begin to relate to the natural
world. "In the outdoor setting they become typical kids. I have seen
hard-core street gang members, who spend two to three days in the forest,
become fascinated with the things they see, deer, squirrels, and stars,"
says Hollopeter. "It is amazing to watch them lose the ‘tough-guy
attitude.' We remind them that we prefer they act the way they really
are when they return to the community, instead of putting on false fronts."
Becoming Who You Really Are
For one ex-camper of Camp Voorhis Viking, camp was the impetus for his
career. Now a world-class nature photographer and full-time teacher of
landscape and nature photography workshops, Don Gale equates his success
with that fateful day when Camp Director Clay Hollopeter gave him a state-of-the-art
35 millimeter camera in 1967 when he was barely a teenager. "Clay
gave me my first camera on a six-day backpacking trip, way before 35 millimeter
cameras were widely available. When you are a kid, you don't know what
to do or where you're going. But when someone tells you that you are good
at something, it was a springboard to satisfy my creativity," says
Gale. "The real connection I still have with the camp and with Clay
is that I remember him letting me use this really expensive camera, and
I lost it. I could never tell my Dad about it. But, Clay never made me
pay it back."
Planting Seeds in Good Soil
It may seem to be an insurmountable task to reach the 2 million at-risk
youth who suffer the painful burden of having a family member or parent
in prison. With camp programs like THE OAKS Christian Camp and Conference
Center, Camp Voorhis Viking, and Prison Fellowship's Angel Tree® Camping,
the camp experience continues to produce good soil, and as a result, strong
seeds. "We must recognize that these kids are kids with problems
and not problem kids. These are normal and resilient kids. With care,
service, and patience, there is great hope for them," states Hollopeter.
- Treat the campers the same as you would any other camper. Try
to avoid the natural tendency to label them internally or
externally. Be aware of your biases ahead of time and
deal with them.
- Realize it will typically take three or more days, even
seasons, for the campers to learn they can decompress at
camp. Many are the secondary or primary caregivers
for their siblings, and it takes time for them to let their
hair down and allow themselves to be kids again.
- Love casts out fear. Counselors, more than ever,
need to show they are reliable, consistent, and trustworthy. Many
of these campers have been in and out of the foster care
system and are not quick to trust or accept love from a
person until that person proves to be dependable.
- Many campers will fear the police and social service
system. From a child's perspective, they are the ones
who took their parent away or took them away from their
parents. Try to understand that this view is their reality
and work from their perspective. Avoid statements that
try to whitewash their situation and feelings.
- Place your best staff in these cabins — ones you
expect to return for a second year or who you know will
write the campers after the summer.
- For about a third to half of our campers, the first year
will be their test of you. Don't expect a real impact until
the second or third year of attendance.
- Find ways to provide follow up after camp through mentoring
programs, local churches, or youth clubs. These children
have fewer trustworthy assets in their lives that can provide
guidance and resources for coping. Help them find new
sources.
- Their families may not look and be like your family,
but it is still their family to them. Respect and try to
understand their context.
- They don't need a counselor's pity; they need their compassion.
- They don't need their counselor to be their best friend;
they need them to be an adult who gives them direction and
loving discipline.
- Give them choices and teach them to problem solve. This
gives them the control they need and allows them to learn
wisdom.
- Be prepared to provide washing facilities and access
to ironing boards, irons, toiletry items, and supplemental
clothing. They also might not know what to pack or
how to get help. Frequently they will not have multiple
pairs of shoes or specialty outdoor attire for the elements.
Contributed by Sean McFeely, program director of THE OAKS
Christian Camp and Conference Center, www.worldimpact.org/oaks.
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Andrew
Andrew, fourteen, has a father in prison and lives with his
grandparents. In July, he joined with a dozen boys and girls
like himself to experience a week of fun and fellowship as
a "mainstreamed" Angel Tree camper. Only senior
staff could identify them amid more than 100 campers at California's
Wolf Mountain Conference Association, a Christian facility
located in the mountains north of Sacramento. "I thought
it would be boring," Andrew admitted in the midst of
his exploits. "But it isn't. It's really a lot of fun."
Chantelle
Chantelle chickened out on the Zip Line. A tiny, slender little
girl of nine years with a wraparound smile, she had clamored
to be the first to ride the cable 650 feet down the mountain.
But she wasn't smiling now, and the other campers looked like
ants far below. She relaxed her hold on the belay line and
began slowly feeling with her foot for the ladder behind her.
The other kids encouraged her to go for it: "Go ahead,
girl. You can do it!" But Chantelle was on the ladder
now, edging her way downward, past the other kids waiting
their turn. Then she watched as one-by-one, the girls from
her cabin at the Angel Tree Camp in the San Gabriel Mountains
(THE OAKS Christian Camp and Conference Center) stood at the
top of the platform, grasped the pulley tether line, and set
sail down the mountain. As each got off at the bottom, the
pulley was pulled back to the top for the next rider.
Then there were no more kids, just Chantelle and the platform
instructor. She looked at him. "Could I try it again,
please?" she begged. He nodded for her to get back up
on the platform.
She grasped the pulley tether with both hands until the
knuckles of her little hands turned white; she gritted her
teeth and clamped her eyes shut. Then she slid off the platform
into space and went sailing down the line where the others
waited. Seconds later, the catchers had her and released her
from the harness. Then, the other girls pounced on her—howling,
high-fiving, and hugging. Little Chantelle had just conquered
her Fear of the Week. Chantelle has already begun to grow
because of her slide for life down the Zip Line; she will
be just a little less likely to back away from the next challenge
life hands her.
(Reprinted by permission of Prison Fellowship, Merrifield,
Virginia)
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Originally published in the 2004 July/August
issue of Camping Magazine.
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